I have two kids. An 18 year old daughter who is a freshman in college and my son. Who is 30. And still at home, not doing anything to make his life better. Who is about to become homeless this Friday. His psychiatrist recommended this, told us we are not helping him, it is destroying our family, and he has to make his own choices and deal with the consequences. We set a date of April 1st (yes, I appreciate the irony but this is NOT a joke!). Any suggestions on how to deal with the overwhelming guilt that I somehow failed as a parent? How to get past the fact we may never see him again, know what happened to him, deal with the thought of my first-born getting physically hurt, abused or even end up dead?