I have been reading the Explosive Child book and I just don't know about this. If I am to follow Plan C and say Yes or OK to everything he wants, what exactly does that teach him? So he does not have an explosion, but what about teaching that they can't always get what they want? What about teaching them that tantrums and explosions do not get good results? If I were to follow Plan C, how will my 10 yr old daughter feel? She will feel that he always gets his way and that's not fair to her. I just don't really understand how this works.