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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 679712" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>Hi Rebel,</p><p></p><p>Most of our difficult adults do the same thing when they have a small/medium problem that they need to take care of--they ignore it, which then leads to a bigger problem, that they continue to ignore.</p><p></p><p>Even when we remind them to take care of the problem, remind them of the consequences that will come from not taking care of the problem, give them the tools to fix the problem (money, transportation, phone #s, etc.), they still don't get it accomplished. Or even attempt to. </p><p></p><p>They don't seem to care.</p><p></p><p>This is the mindset of most of our addicted young adults. It is a pattern.</p><p></p><p>Yes, what he did is theft and deception. Manipulation.</p><p></p><p>You are a bit like Saul of Damascus, when the scales fall from his eyes and he sees the truth for the first time.</p><p></p><p>It is a process for us to finally recognize the truth. At first, we just can't face it. Then we slowly come to accept it.</p><p></p><p>It is so difficult.</p><p></p><p>Stay with us, Rebel. </p><p></p><p>It will be a painful process to recognize the truth, but it will set you free.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there, we are here for you.</p><p></p><p>apple</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 679712, member: 16024"] Hi Rebel, Most of our difficult adults do the same thing when they have a small/medium problem that they need to take care of--they ignore it, which then leads to a bigger problem, that they continue to ignore. Even when we remind them to take care of the problem, remind them of the consequences that will come from not taking care of the problem, give them the tools to fix the problem (money, transportation, phone #s, etc.), they still don't get it accomplished. Or even attempt to. They don't seem to care. This is the mindset of most of our addicted young adults. It is a pattern. Yes, what he did is theft and deception. Manipulation. You are a bit like Saul of Damascus, when the scales fall from his eyes and he sees the truth for the first time. It is a process for us to finally recognize the truth. At first, we just can't face it. Then we slowly come to accept it. It is so difficult. Stay with us, Rebel. It will be a painful process to recognize the truth, but it will set you free. Hang in there, we are here for you. apple [/QUOTE]
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