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I Find It Difficult to "Not Know" What is Going On . . .
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<blockquote data-quote="seek" data-source="post: 714894" data-attributes="member: 22002"><p>Looking back on what just happened, this is a difficult scenario . . . it appears when things are "going well," he is in touch, pretty regularly - and when he relapses, then he hides and is just passed out drunk.</p><p></p><p>When he is sober and working a program, naturally, I WANT to believe it's for real this time and it will stick - so when he is less available, I think he is "individuating" - growing up and is busy with life. But it turns out that I am often wrong. And I believe lies (because why wouldn't I think he is "going to a meeting" or whatever when he is supposedly sober?) . . .</p><p></p><p>He told me when he was at my house that he lies constantly - sober or not. He just volunteered it and I said that I knew that on some level . . .</p><p></p><p>From a practical standpoint, it is a really difficult problem for me to get a handle on.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="seek, post: 714894, member: 22002"] Looking back on what just happened, this is a difficult scenario . . . it appears when things are "going well," he is in touch, pretty regularly - and when he relapses, then he hides and is just passed out drunk. When he is sober and working a program, naturally, I WANT to believe it's for real this time and it will stick - so when he is less available, I think he is "individuating" - growing up and is busy with life. But it turns out that I am often wrong. And I believe lies (because why wouldn't I think he is "going to a meeting" or whatever when he is supposedly sober?) . . . He told me when he was at my house that he lies constantly - sober or not. He just volunteered it and I said that I knew that on some level . . . From a practical standpoint, it is a really difficult problem for me to get a handle on. [/QUOTE]
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