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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 663402" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Welcome Joy,</p><p>I'm so sorry you had to find us but so glad you did. As you already know this site is full of "Warrior Parents" who have been through it all.</p><p>It sounds like you have a pretty good grip on the situation in that you know you need to detach from your son and his chaos.</p><p>Good job on sending him a list of places and telling him not to contact you until he gets the help he needs.</p><p>It may take a while for him to fully grasp that you will no longer enable him. If he anything like many of our Difficult Child's he will go to great lengths to manipulate you and try and make you feel guilty for the situation he has created for himself. Stand strong and firm and know that you did not cause this. It's obvious from your post that you have gone above and beyond to help him get his life on track. Don't let him draw you back into the chaos.</p><p>We are here for you and you are not alone. You have made some difficult decisions but it is for the best. Now it's time for you to take your life back.</p><p>I really like the name you picked.</p><p>Hang in there and keep reading and posting.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you............</p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/staystrong.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":staystrong:" title="staystrong :staystrong:" data-shortname=":staystrong:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/notalone.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":notalone:" title="notalone :notalone:" data-shortname=":notalone:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 663402, member: 18516"] Welcome Joy, I'm so sorry you had to find us but so glad you did. As you already know this site is full of "Warrior Parents" who have been through it all. It sounds like you have a pretty good grip on the situation in that you know you need to detach from your son and his chaos. Good job on sending him a list of places and telling him not to contact you until he gets the help he needs. It may take a while for him to fully grasp that you will no longer enable him. If he anything like many of our Difficult Child's he will go to great lengths to manipulate you and try and make you feel guilty for the situation he has created for himself. Stand strong and firm and know that you did not cause this. It's obvious from your post that you have gone above and beyond to help him get his life on track. Don't let him draw you back into the chaos. We are here for you and you are not alone. You have made some difficult decisions but it is for the best. Now it's time for you to take your life back. I really like the name you picked. Hang in there and keep reading and posting. ((HUGS)) to you............ :group-hug::staystrong::notalone: [/QUOTE]
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