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<blockquote data-quote="neednewtechnique" data-source="post: 25398" data-attributes="member: 3527"><p>No, and this is actually a really interesting and somewhat "magical" occurance that has baffled me since all of this started. The bio mom was receiving until she was imprisoned, at which time it was automatically re-routed to the Illinois Foster Care association. It was paid to them through the evaluation period we went through to get them to place her with us (at which time she was in an appoved foster care home, which just caused more problems, but that is a story for a different time). We were aware of the fact beforehand, that his child support order would not be cancelled until we get full custody at the end of the six months she lives with us as a "foster child", so we were trying to find a way around it. We were under the impression that CPS was the one responsible for having his child support re-routed the first time, so we asked about the possibility of just having it re-routed back to us until they could get it cancelled. Apparently, the first re-routing was done by the child support fairy, because according to them, they have no involvment with that whatsoever, and although it was done, no one knows who actually did it. So when she was finally placed with us, there was a "hold" put on his child support account. Which means that he still has the money deducted from his paycheck, but it isn't being paid to ANYONE right now. It is being stored in an account, and at the end of the six months when custody is turned over to us and the order is cancelled, we will get all that back. Which, don't misunderstand, is a GREAT thing, but at the same time, that doesn't really help us now, with having to still pay the child support AND fully support her on our own (mom's out of prison now, in my opinion, much too quickly for a repeat offender, but we have no control over that... and there is no child support order in place for her until this six months is up). </p><p></p><p>And yes, it is exactly as you said, having people around to relate to IS like a dam being opened up and everything is pouring out at once!!!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="neednewtechnique, post: 25398, member: 3527"] No, and this is actually a really interesting and somewhat "magical" occurance that has baffled me since all of this started. The bio mom was receiving until she was imprisoned, at which time it was automatically re-routed to the Illinois Foster Care association. It was paid to them through the evaluation period we went through to get them to place her with us (at which time she was in an appoved foster care home, which just caused more problems, but that is a story for a different time). We were aware of the fact beforehand, that his child support order would not be cancelled until we get full custody at the end of the six months she lives with us as a "foster child", so we were trying to find a way around it. We were under the impression that CPS was the one responsible for having his child support re-routed the first time, so we asked about the possibility of just having it re-routed back to us until they could get it cancelled. Apparently, the first re-routing was done by the child support fairy, because according to them, they have no involvment with that whatsoever, and although it was done, no one knows who actually did it. So when she was finally placed with us, there was a "hold" put on his child support account. Which means that he still has the money deducted from his paycheck, but it isn't being paid to ANYONE right now. It is being stored in an account, and at the end of the six months when custody is turned over to us and the order is cancelled, we will get all that back. Which, don't misunderstand, is a GREAT thing, but at the same time, that doesn't really help us now, with having to still pay the child support AND fully support her on our own (mom's out of prison now, in my opinion, much too quickly for a repeat offender, but we have no control over that... and there is no child support order in place for her until this six months is up). And yes, it is exactly as you said, having people around to relate to IS like a dam being opened up and everything is pouring out at once!!!!!! [/QUOTE]
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