I was in line at big lots and just when this girl and I finally got up (there were only two cashiers open and dozens of people in lines) she told the girl in front of me she had to go to the end of the line next to us, I asked, "did she say we had to go to the end of that line? " and the cashier said, yea I have to go over there and help something but you can wait, and I said, yeah it will probably be shorter just to wait if that's ok.... and this chick in the other line says, why dont you just move since she has to help that lady who was ahead of you anyway (what lady....where????? I didn't even know what the heck she was talking about, and I said, well she didn't explain and that is why I was asking and she just went on and on and on and I finally said, I think you need to mind your own business, and she said well I am right here and I could hear you... Excuse me, when did the rule become if you can hear someone's conversation, you are invited to join in? I finally turned around and another cashier came to open a different lane and I guess God helped me because my good manners made me be first in line and that lady still had to wait, lol. But here is where I still need work, I was going over the conversation over and over in my head. I get so upset with conflict and it is just stupid, she means nothing to me, I will never see her again, and I did nothing wrong. My son even says, mom, why are you talking to yourself...I dont even realize that my lips are actually moving! So stupid, really.... I have to learn to let things go better.