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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 631144" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>It is a catch 22.... probably the best thing is to do nothing and to give him no money for anything. I think you may want to back off the idea that he can only live with you if he is looking for work because then you are in the position of watching to see if he is looking for work and he is going to lie to you so that you think he is looking for work etc. I think as much as we can we are all better off if we take ourselves out of the position of trying to police our adult kids. Its not good for us, not really good for them, and not good for whatever relationship there is.</p><p></p><p>TL</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 631144, member: 15801"] It is a catch 22.... probably the best thing is to do nothing and to give him no money for anything. I think you may want to back off the idea that he can only live with you if he is looking for work because then you are in the position of watching to see if he is looking for work and he is going to lie to you so that you think he is looking for work etc. I think as much as we can we are all better off if we take ourselves out of the position of trying to police our adult kids. Its not good for us, not really good for them, and not good for whatever relationship there is. TL Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app [/QUOTE]
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