And this one actually likes me and respects me and thinks I did a fantastic job raising her husband. Have you guessed yet? My son got married! I'm happy for them, they were made for each other. Yes, they are young, but they are much happier living together now that they're married. Even though they got their license on Tuesday and got married on Friday, it was a beautiful little wedding, and this mama made it pretty special for them. Ceremony, food, wedding cake...get this. This SAME bakery that did my son's very first birthday cake when he turned 1 year old also did his wedding cake, with ONE day's notice! They did a magnificent job, and didn't charge me the going rate for wedding cakes...just a regular 8" cake that they "fancied up a bit". It was lovely, the whole event was just perfect. Imagine what I could have done with a weeks' notice! LOL Now about the she-spawn. You might remember that I was burglarized in mid-January. All my gold and diamond jewelry, my grandmother's pearls, my mother's jewelry and even my funky fun costume jewelry that was hanging on the back of the door in my bedroom - gone. Plus my husband's digital camera. We have no doubt it was her...it was targeted, that's is all that was disturbed, she knew where I kept it and our adult dog (who she knows) let her in. Anyway, all familial ties have been cut - though she initiated that some time ago. But I have no interest in ever having any kind of relationship with her again. I changed my life insurance policy even. Anyway, bout a month after the incident, she posts some pictures on Facebook...obviously they taken with a nice camera, and she asks people to let her take their pictures, she wants to build up a portfolio. I'm steaming just thinking about it. Yes, I do sneak in a back door to look at her Facebook...so I obviously haven't let go...and it just pisses me off every time I do it, but I just looked again, and she's flashing a new manicure, with LOTS of diamonds on two of her fingers. Not my diamonds, but something that is definitely not something she (an unemployed drop out) and her piss-poor gangster wanna be husband can afford. Oh, and she also left the comment, "I love having money!" Ohhhhh, I am so angry. And hurt. And disgusted that such a creature as she actually came from my body. Bad seed. Her father is a pathological liar and I believe has serious Borderline (BPD) tendencies. In fact, his first words (only words about it actually) when I told him what she did was "Don't ruin your daughter's life!" He knows that she's a thief and a liar and always has been and he asks ME to not ruin her life. I wish they could bust her and she could sit her sorry little ass in jail for a very long time. I'm glad my son at least turned out ok. I know. Quit looking at her facebook. Detach. I wish I could but it's like a compulsion I just can't control. I need to tell my friend to change her password so I can't go in and look. I'm just so...defeated. Tired. Done.