husband's psychiatrist. He is very knowlegdable about medications, and I trust him. I really do not want to go on ad's, but I just cannot go on this way. Last week my therapist gave me a depression questionnaire, and there was no question at all about the answer. I called and got an appointment, made sure that psychiatrist was ok seeing me and husband. Got a call and psychiatrist is fine with it........................as long as husband is ok with it. So now in order to see the doctor that I want to see I have to tell husband. I am sure he knows something is up with me, it would be hard not to, but I just wish I did not have to tell him. I do have a couple weeks, but husband has an appointment thurs. Do I bring it up before or after the appointment? Do I drop it and see someone else? I just really do not want to have to go into details to someone new, and this psychiatrist already knows the story. Right now it is easier to talk about difficult child than husband. Any opinions are welcome, even if it is just to tell me to chill out and not make a mountain out of a mole hill.