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<blockquote data-quote="TweetyD" data-source="post: 718624" data-attributes="member: 22258"><p>Thank you for sharing your wisdom.</p><p>My BFF is in total denial. I tried to tell her at least a year ago to change the locks on their house as the daughter had a key and that they should install a security/camera system. They recently found out that the daughter was sneaking into their house when they were asleep upstairs, took the Tyme card, went to two ATMs, then snuck the card back before anyone knew she was even there. They didn't suspect anything, or didn't want to suspect anything, when S**** was caught standing in their dark kitchen after midnight. When S****'s step-dad asked why she was there...in the dark kitchen, she said she was in the neighborhood and had to go to the bathroom. Yet, now that he thinks back on it, she left without going to the bathroom. She "justified" her stealing by saying that her mom and step-dad "have a lot of money". Now they have a security system and new locks, so they listened to me on something. The advice of forgetting about everything is mainly coming from the son and brother of my BFF. Ironically, just a few months ago both of them referred to S**** as a "drug wh..re" who should be locked up and they didn't want anything to do with her. S**** knows exactly what to say to manipulate her mom. S**** knew her mom wouldn't have the backbone to file a police report. S**** knew she could/would get away with it. S**** also knew that my BFF wouldn't completely tell her husband everything, otherwise I know he would have already filed a report. My BFF was the "perfect victim" for her daughter. I've heard my friend crying over this many times. I'd be rich if I had a dollar for every time my BFF has said "she's my daughter". It's so difficult to have a friend asking what she should do. I suggested professional counseling, but know she won't admit to everything there either, and definitely won't listen if they suggest involving the police and/or drug rehab. Maybe I do need time away from all this drama.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TweetyD, post: 718624, member: 22258"] Thank you for sharing your wisdom. My BFF is in total denial. I tried to tell her at least a year ago to change the locks on their house as the daughter had a key and that they should install a security/camera system. They recently found out that the daughter was sneaking into their house when they were asleep upstairs, took the Tyme card, went to two ATMs, then snuck the card back before anyone knew she was even there. They didn't suspect anything, or didn't want to suspect anything, when S**** was caught standing in their dark kitchen after midnight. When S****'s step-dad asked why she was there...in the dark kitchen, she said she was in the neighborhood and had to go to the bathroom. Yet, now that he thinks back on it, she left without going to the bathroom. She "justified" her stealing by saying that her mom and step-dad "have a lot of money". Now they have a security system and new locks, so they listened to me on something. The advice of forgetting about everything is mainly coming from the son and brother of my BFF. Ironically, just a few months ago both of them referred to S**** as a "drug wh..re" who should be locked up and they didn't want anything to do with her. S**** knows exactly what to say to manipulate her mom. S**** knew her mom wouldn't have the backbone to file a police report. S**** knew she could/would get away with it. S**** also knew that my BFF wouldn't completely tell her husband everything, otherwise I know he would have already filed a report. My BFF was the "perfect victim" for her daughter. I've heard my friend crying over this many times. I'd be rich if I had a dollar for every time my BFF has said "she's my daughter". It's so difficult to have a friend asking what she should do. I suggested professional counseling, but know she won't admit to everything there either, and definitely won't listen if they suggest involving the police and/or drug rehab. Maybe I do need time away from all this drama. [/QUOTE]
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