Diva watched the neighbor girl last night. On the way home, I saw Diva was at a home that I do not think is a good atmosphere for the neighbor girl so I called Diva and stated she should not have her there. Diva stated the girl's mom knows about it and is fine with it. I told her that neighbor girl is not to be around any bad language (that is how Diva picked up on the grosses of gross four letter words) or drinking (I know people in the house drink) to which she assured me that I as a dumb**** who knew nothing. On the bus home today, neighbor girl told difficult child that Diva told a friend to go buy her some alcohol. difficult child told me after begging that I don't let the neighbor girl know he did. O.K. - Here I have a daughter who is very super disrespectful to me and a neighbor girl stating Diva buys beer! I called Diva and she denied this - I don't know who to believe. So, being neighbor girl is only 16 years old with learning disabilities, I figured I better go over there and get more info. I told neighbor girl and her mom that I had called Diva and told her she was done babysitting because of what I just heard. Neighbor girl's mom is so upset and hurt. She can't believe Diva would do this. In questioning the girl, we find that she was in a house when Diva stated she had to talk to this boy. She overheard Diva telling him to go buy beer but it was not for Diva. They did not have it out or drink it in front of her. So, girl's mom gets upset with the girl for starting gossip. I told her that I am sorry I came over but that if it was true, we certainly do not want the neighbor girl near that activity. The mom said the girl had gotten into alot of trouble lately for doing this. Overhearing something and repeating it out of context. I told her that maybe this time because it hit so close to home, she will learn not to repeat things. The mom told her she can not see Diva anymore because she hurt our family over this. I talked to the mom and asked that she put a time limit on this, please do not make it a forever can not see Diva. I think this time the girl has a very vivid picture of how gossiping can cause harms. So now, Diva is mad at difficult child for telling me. She doesn't think he should have. Like I told the girl and her mom and Diva, this had to be addressed because if it was true and I didn't put a stop to it????