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I just got one of those dreaded messages from my son
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 686383" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>This is a very good thread, and , Copa, I like your response.</p><p>After my daughters life, with no thought of her future other thsn using drugs, it took a while for her to decide which way she wanted to live her life. Even pot impeded your "seeing ahead" skips, if the pot is daily. You need a clearing of the mind and time to get yourself back. My daughter had actually finished and got A's in a Cometology class while on coke (amazing accomplishment,really,and she was caught and almost kicked out, so...digressing)...she is very smart and had a leg up. You'd think.</p><p></p><p>Problem was, especially on drugs, she hated the job and slugged along doing retail on drugs. She hated that too and kept quitting until it was the drugs she quilt. Only then could she clear her brain and decide a "purpose" of sorts and she took out a loan and went back to school, and most of you know the rest...the graduation, the awards for oher pastries, her boyfriend, her own house, her adorable baby.</p><p></p><p>You need to have a clear head to decide how you wish to spend your life and then to do it. On your own. Because you want it and dont need us to get it. She is 32 and a very typical young mother. Now. Not while doing drugs.</p><p></p><p>The first step to your purpose is to get a job and a place of your own. If they won't, what do they expect us to do? It is very sad for us, but only they can find a purpose. Their own purpose.</p><p></p><p>I had my fair share of pity calls too.</p><p></p><p>I am so relieved she figured her life out on her own with SO.</p><p></p><p>But at one time I didnt think it would happen.</p><p></p><p>So sorry fot the heartwrenching call.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 686383, member: 1550"] This is a very good thread, and , Copa, I like your response. After my daughters life, with no thought of her future other thsn using drugs, it took a while for her to decide which way she wanted to live her life. Even pot impeded your "seeing ahead" skips, if the pot is daily. You need a clearing of the mind and time to get yourself back. My daughter had actually finished and got A's in a Cometology class while on coke (amazing accomplishment,really,and she was caught and almost kicked out, so...digressing)...she is very smart and had a leg up. You'd think. Problem was, especially on drugs, she hated the job and slugged along doing retail on drugs. She hated that too and kept quitting until it was the drugs she quilt. Only then could she clear her brain and decide a "purpose" of sorts and she took out a loan and went back to school, and most of you know the rest...the graduation, the awards for oher pastries, her boyfriend, her own house, her adorable baby. You need to have a clear head to decide how you wish to spend your life and then to do it. On your own. Because you want it and dont need us to get it. She is 32 and a very typical young mother. Now. Not while doing drugs. The first step to your purpose is to get a job and a place of your own. If they won't, what do they expect us to do? It is very sad for us, but only they can find a purpose. Their own purpose. I had my fair share of pity calls too. I am so relieved she figured her life out on her own with SO. But at one time I didnt think it would happen. So sorry fot the heartwrenching call. [/QUOTE]
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