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I just threw out my 21 year old addict son
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<blockquote data-quote="Khris" data-source="post: 703405" data-attributes="member: 21065"><p>Well, my son texted me yesterday and wanted some more of his belongings. I did exactly as you said DarkwingPsyduck. Put things in a bag on the front porch and he did pick them up. Since last Friday, I am finding out from others who didn't want to "snitch" that he has been doing / selling weed and Percocets. I am having my family and friends over for Thanksgiving so last night I was putting out liquor. Found that full bottles of Gin, Canadian Club and Rum were missing. I just wanted to cry (and still do). I can't believe he could lie to me and just be doing all this stuff right here. I guess there was a lot I wanted to believe but now the curtain has been pulled back and I see what he has become. I also found receipts in his room for food stores. I did some digging and found out he actually filed for welfare benefits and got them. I don't know what he told them, but he has an EBT card. I don't plan on doing anything about that as he is not living here. Unless anyone has a suggestion on this one? </p><p></p><p>I am having about 25 people over today and I thought to myself this will be the first holiday that he cannot ruin on me. For years, he has torpedoed Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc. with completely manufactured arguments. I always said that he could start an argument with himself. Yes, that was his procedure. He would take some insignificant thing and blow it up. I wouldn't even have to say a word and he would just keep going and escalating it. I don't know how many times I would say "you are arguing with yourself, please stop to no avail. </p><p></p><p>I also want to say "Thank you" to all for your support and while it is rough right now, Happy Thanksgiving to all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Khris, post: 703405, member: 21065"] Well, my son texted me yesterday and wanted some more of his belongings. I did exactly as you said DarkwingPsyduck. Put things in a bag on the front porch and he did pick them up. Since last Friday, I am finding out from others who didn't want to "snitch" that he has been doing / selling weed and Percocets. I am having my family and friends over for Thanksgiving so last night I was putting out liquor. Found that full bottles of Gin, Canadian Club and Rum were missing. I just wanted to cry (and still do). I can't believe he could lie to me and just be doing all this stuff right here. I guess there was a lot I wanted to believe but now the curtain has been pulled back and I see what he has become. I also found receipts in his room for food stores. I did some digging and found out he actually filed for welfare benefits and got them. I don't know what he told them, but he has an EBT card. I don't plan on doing anything about that as he is not living here. Unless anyone has a suggestion on this one? I am having about 25 people over today and I thought to myself this will be the first holiday that he cannot ruin on me. For years, he has torpedoed Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc. with completely manufactured arguments. I always said that he could start an argument with himself. Yes, that was his procedure. He would take some insignificant thing and blow it up. I wouldn't even have to say a word and he would just keep going and escalating it. I don't know how many times I would say "you are arguing with yourself, please stop to no avail. I also want to say "Thank you" to all for your support and while it is rough right now, Happy Thanksgiving to all. [/QUOTE]
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