About three years ago, my daughter decided to do drugs and drink a lot of alcohol. Her decisions were taking a toll on our family and because she refused to go to rehab and had a very violent behavior, we kicked her out of the house and filed a restraining order. Not only that but she also lost all of her friends and her boyfriend. After three years of not seeing her, I met her at the place that I didn't expect her to be at: a college. She never liked school (but she had really amazing grades) and had claimed that she wouldn't go to college (much to my dismay), but here she was, at college studying culinary arts, had a steady job, and was completely drug free. But the most shocking part was that she had a two year old child. Apparently after two months of her getting kicked out, she met a very charming and handsome man but he became abusive after he found out that she was pregnant with his child. She told me that she would call me and the rest if the family to help her but we would never respond (which was true but the only reason we didn't respond was because we thought that she would try to change our minds). Another reason she would call was because since she became pregnant, she went to rehab to get help and had wanted us to be there for her. There isn't a day that I don't regret for not picking up the phone. Because of us ignoring her, she has come to hate us and now wants nothing to do with us. What can we do?