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I kicked out DS, told him to choose drug rehab or police
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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 668517" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Sad when our adult children play us this way.Your instructions and expectations were simple enough. You are saving yourself a heap of trouble by setting rules, limits and boundaries, and sticking to them.</p><p></p><p>Not to add to your worries, but as a side note from our experience, secure your house. My difficult children had no problem breaking in to our house while we were at work. They would nonchalantly say, "Well you were at work, and the door was locked, and I needed to get...." Or the old "That wasn't me." </p><p></p><p>You might want to consider this, although I don't know the laws in your State. Where we live, if our adult children live with us and use our address, in order to remove them from our home legally (they are given the same rights as tenants here), we have to get an eviction notice, and follow all of the guidelines there. You might want to look in to that in case he gets vindictive. </p><p></p><p>Keep standing firm. Pot does strange things to folks. I think it is much more addictive, and maybe mixed with other stuff. Drugs turn our kids in to strangers, and they have no problem hurting their parents to continue their lifestyle.</p><p></p><p>"It aint over til the fat lady sings."</p><p></p><p>Tough love. Your house, your rules, your right to live peaceably. (((HUGS)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 668517, member: 19522"] Sad when our adult children play us this way.Your instructions and expectations were simple enough. You are saving yourself a heap of trouble by setting rules, limits and boundaries, and sticking to them. Not to add to your worries, but as a side note from our experience, secure your house. My difficult children had no problem breaking in to our house while we were at work. They would nonchalantly say, "Well you were at work, and the door was locked, and I needed to get...." Or the old "That wasn't me." You might want to consider this, although I don't know the laws in your State. Where we live, if our adult children live with us and use our address, in order to remove them from our home legally (they are given the same rights as tenants here), we have to get an eviction notice, and follow all of the guidelines there. You might want to look in to that in case he gets vindictive. Keep standing firm. Pot does strange things to folks. I think it is much more addictive, and maybe mixed with other stuff. Drugs turn our kids in to strangers, and they have no problem hurting their parents to continue their lifestyle. "It aint over til the fat lady sings." Tough love. Your house, your rules, your right to live peaceably. (((HUGS))) [/QUOTE]
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