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I kicked out DS, told him to choose drug rehab or police
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 668529" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>I think you handled it very well. You have given him so many chances.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I dealt with this with my son. The first time I found pot and pipes in my son's room I threw them out and told him if I ever found it again that I would call the cops. He then proceeded to tell me go ahead, you're the one who will go to jail, it's illegal for you to search MY room. I just stood there and started laughing!! In hindsight that might not have been the best thing to do but I couldn't help it. I told him that he was very wrong, that it was not HIS room. I explained that it was MY house, I paid the mortgage and the room he occupied was temporary only for as long as he lived under MY roof and since it was my house I could look anywhere I wanted to.</p><p>Well, it did happen again, I found pot in his room so I called the cops and explained what I had found and where, then asked them to come and remove it from my home which they did. As long as you leave it where you found it there should not be an issue. Even if your tried to say it was yours I really doubt the police would believe that, I mean you would be the one calling the cops, why would you do that if it was yours????</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 668529, member: 18516"] I think you handled it very well. You have given him so many chances. I dealt with this with my son. The first time I found pot and pipes in my son's room I threw them out and told him if I ever found it again that I would call the cops. He then proceeded to tell me go ahead, you're the one who will go to jail, it's illegal for you to search MY room. I just stood there and started laughing!! In hindsight that might not have been the best thing to do but I couldn't help it. I told him that he was very wrong, that it was not HIS room. I explained that it was MY house, I paid the mortgage and the room he occupied was temporary only for as long as he lived under MY roof and since it was my house I could look anywhere I wanted to. Well, it did happen again, I found pot in his room so I called the cops and explained what I had found and where, then asked them to come and remove it from my home which they did. As long as you leave it where you found it there should not be an issue. Even if your tried to say it was yours I really doubt the police would believe that, I mean you would be the one calling the cops, why would you do that if it was yours???? [/QUOTE]
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