butt, hi am i allowed to say butt here?? LOL guess i'll find out! So, I went in today to difficult child's first cse eligibility meeting. there were about 6 school staff ranging from teacher that states she just needs herbs and doens't have BiPolar (BP), to the school pyschologist who is more fascinated by his pocket protector than anything else, he just stares at it all the time when he isnt' fidgeting in his seat scary! So, i let everyone get comfy sign the sign in sheet put the tape recorder on and introduce themselves, than the head chairperson said ok mrs. blah blah how's difficult child doing in class?? that's when i said can i interject for a moment please?? I said unfortunately i'm giong to have to table this meeting today, i was not provided the documents i requested in writing on such and such date. i gave them dates of phone calls made, chasing down anyone to respond to me. The chairperson just sat and shook her head. They were stunned and totally surprised. Guess they dont' get alot of that! They said your actually giong to table the meeting? I said yes I never enter into any meeting with-o being prepared and right now i am not due to the school not providing me with x, y and z. I said i appreciate everyone being here i wish they had forfilled my request in a timely manner. I look forward to working with all of you again hopefully soon. Yup I was as sweet as pie just to upset them. Chairperson who used to be last year school pyschologist threw me a dig and said hopefully your ex can be at the next meeting. They know he is against me as far as difficult child's diagnosis so they'd really want him lol. I said sheesh one can only hope yet his job is very demanding so i update him accordingly. I get home nad i get a missed call from school. Guess what suddenly they have all the doctor's they couldn't provide me with and want to reconvene at 2:15 today. Nope. i'm letting them wait out my return phone call. I'm in battle mode now. Let them wait. They really just dont' get how fiercely i will fight them for difficult child. Maybe after this morning they now have a little taste........ one can only hope. they just seemed so shocked that I knew I could table the meeting like that. They were all sort of sitting there with-their mouths hanging open. Once I get the nurses' log's which they claim are hand written. That won't work I need copies of actual log's, i do not trust them i'm going to draw a timeline on oaktag, and do a whole presentation if need be.