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I know....Im a slow learner !!
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 682374" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi So, this isn't about being a slow learner or a fast learner. It's about detaching from our d_c's and taking our lives back. The "timing" is not the same for everyone.</p><p>I spent many years allowing my son's chaos to interfere with my life. I had successfully, partially detached from him which is where I think you are right now. Where you are right now is okay. You may not feel like it but you are making progress. How do I know this, because you are still here with us.</p><p>I am not giving up on you so don't give up on yourself.</p><p></p><p></p><p>You not letting her come live with you is progress. I know how draining it can be but stay steady the course. If other people want to enable her that is on them, try and let that go.</p><p></p><p></p><p>It is hard when there are grands.</p><p></p><p>Stay strong, you are doing great.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you my friend.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 682374, member: 18516"] Hi So, this isn't about being a slow learner or a fast learner. It's about detaching from our d_c's and taking our lives back. The "timing" is not the same for everyone. I spent many years allowing my son's chaos to interfere with my life. I had successfully, partially detached from him which is where I think you are right now. Where you are right now is okay. You may not feel like it but you are making progress. How do I know this, because you are still here with us. I am not giving up on you so don't give up on yourself. You not letting her come live with you is progress. I know how draining it can be but stay steady the course. If other people want to enable her that is on them, try and let that go. It is hard when there are grands. Stay strong, you are doing great. ((HUGS)) to you my friend. [/QUOTE]
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