I know I've already beat the topic of mother in law coming to live with us to DEATH, but H still hasn't pulled his head out of his, um, well, you know. He is still thinking of using mother in law's home sale funds to buy another home with a mother in law apt in it for us all to share. I can't do that, for all the reasons already posted to DEATH, but I don't have the resources to move out on my own and likely will not until next Spring. He was supposed to go to FL this weekend to tell his mom face to face that she will NOT be moving into our home in the Spring, but has found multiple excuses for not doing so (busy at work, no money, bad timing, etc). Just when I thought he was thinking sensibly, here it is another Monday and he's not booked his flight or made that call. So, one more time, please either send H some balls or me some strength (or both). Thanks again!