I know that I am new here, and I really don't want to complain alot. But I really need to get this off my chest, and well I am sure some of you here can understand. Let me start with explaining my job- I am a customer service speicilist- which means basically that I am a "lead" not a rep, not a supervisor, but I still take supervisor call's, and run the floor all the time. Before all of this started with difficult child, I was everyone go to person. I came in early, left late, worked any shifts that we couldn't get covered. Basically I was the model employee. Then difficult child behavior got worse, and the calls from the school started more and more. Then we got her diagnosis with ODD- and I got put on FLMA. I still give 110% when I am at work, but now when the school calls, or difficult child has appointment's- which she has once of twice a week I am able to leave. Once all this was in place was when my bosses really started nitpicking everything I do. So 2 months ago, I did no wrong, now I am lucky to make through 3 hours without one of them coming to me with something trivial or childish to complain about it. I think what it comes down too is that I am putting my family first, which is making both of them actually DO their jobs, which is not making them happy. Anyways, I posted last week about my totally BS write up that I got. This weekend is my weekend to work, and it's more layed back, so we have all been talking alot. And one of the girls I work with was like I think what they are doing to you is wrong. And I asked her what she was talking about. Apparently 3 or 4 people went and complained about me, knowing they were making up what they saying I did, just to get me in trouble, and now they are laughing about it and telling everyone that I got wrote up. What's even funnier about it, is these to me are all kids- between 19-22 that went and "got me in trouble" they have no idea what I am dealing with at home, no idea what it's like to have to pay bills, and they are mad because one of their own got a legit write up- by me. Now I don't know what to do, because my first response is to go to my bosses and say look this is what I am hearing, and I think that its wrong. Or go over their heads, and go to our GM or HR. But if I do that then that's going to give the two of them even more reason to make my life at work even harder. I am just so upset that this is even allowed to go on. Any thoughts?