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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 74907" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>KJS-</p><p>I am sure alot os us can relate to the loosing control!!! I feel so bad for you having to go through that, and there is nothing worse than doing it "alone", but maybe husband does have insight??? Maybe not? </p><p>Sometimes my husband is the calm one and others I am the one that can see the forest through the trees, so to speak. </p><p>But when I am by myself and K and her anxieties are building and adding to her defiance... it feels like too much some days. I am glad you walked away. </p><p>The other day when K slapped me hard open handed across the face, it took all of my resolve not to... well we all know what I wanted to do!!! But I just looked at her and said "How does that make you feel to hurt me", then time out... </p><p></p><p>Smallworld is right the anxiety adds so much to our kids other issues. me and psychiatrist are trying to gets K's under control. When they are smart it is even harder because you never know how much they are working you... what they are truly capable of??? How much can they honestly take, how much should you push them??? I am trying to figure out how hard and what she is capable of myself...</p><p></p><p>UGH... so sorry you had to feel this way. I hope things calm down a bit...</p><p>sending you a hug today. :kisses:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 74907, member: 3155"] KJS- I am sure alot os us can relate to the loosing control!!! I feel so bad for you having to go through that, and there is nothing worse than doing it "alone", but maybe husband does have insight??? Maybe not? Sometimes my husband is the calm one and others I am the one that can see the forest through the trees, so to speak. But when I am by myself and K and her anxieties are building and adding to her defiance... it feels like too much some days. I am glad you walked away. The other day when K slapped me hard open handed across the face, it took all of my resolve not to... well we all know what I wanted to do!!! But I just looked at her and said "How does that make you feel to hurt me", then time out... Smallworld is right the anxiety adds so much to our kids other issues. me and psychiatrist are trying to gets K's under control. When they are smart it is even harder because you never know how much they are working you... what they are truly capable of??? How much can they honestly take, how much should you push them??? I am trying to figure out how hard and what she is capable of myself... UGH... so sorry you had to feel this way. I hope things calm down a bit... sending you a hug today. [img]:kisses:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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