well not really over the peas. I was in the kitchen chopping up the green peppers, onions and bacon for the recipe and Buck had come home from going to the neighborhood church. (Excuse me while I gag) He was going on and on about how everyone around here who were at the church came up to him and hugged him and congratulated him for turning his life around (again gag me) and then one of the couples took him home for lunch. They brought him home while I was preparing the black eyed peas. Tony was gone to pick up a stove we were given. Bad timing. He starting preaching to me about all the stuff he is reading and learning at church and how he knows something about seeds and picking the seeds through the weeds and its like God is going to come and pick the good people who are the seeds that are good and leave the bad people who dont go to church like all of us. OH hell no. I saw red. I kept chopping but was thinking of other things I could be doing with that knife. Then he said something about he tried to read my bible which is the King James version but it just wasnt right like his. HUH? As far as I know, the King James version is the normal version. Maybe he has a childrens version because he is an idiot. Oh and he is special because he is a "member" of his church. I wish I could find my baptism certificate. I had it somewhere in this house at one time. Bet he doesnt have one of those. But then when Tony came in I asked Tony how the stove was and we were talking about it and he asked if we just got it free and Tony told him yes and Tony told him he should get on freecycle and I said something about him not having a computer and Tony said well he has Crystal and Kelly (their nieces) and Buck said they dont really talk to him because they love themselves too much. Tony said what? Buck said well they dont go to church ya know? While this whole conversation is going on, I am fixing the recipe and putting stuff in it on the stove and I said something about it needing a bit of garlic and two tblsp's of vinegar. They both said...oh no...we dont want vinegar in beans! I lost it then. I said the recipe calls for it and I am putting it in. Tony said no and I threw the container of garlic at him and he slapped me on the upper arm. Then I started throwing everything in the refrigerator out of it around the room and stormed out of the kitchen to my room in tears. I am so ****** off. I called Jamie and told him he better come down here and get Buck before I kill him. Of course, that wont happen. I have told Tony to just put him on a bus and send him home. To hell with his car. That wont happen. I swear, I am thinking of burning my house down so no one has a place to live. Is it legal to burn your own home down if you arent doing it for insurance purposes? I know one thing, as of the 3rd, I will be in a motel myself if he is still here. I am sick, I have severe emotional problems and Tony has invited a person into my home that I cannot live with. I will never forgive him. This cannot happen again. So much for 2012.