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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 666771" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Yes.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Initially, I was going to respond that we and our sisters had been created by the fires we were forged in. That our situations relative to one another would be the same as our situations with our real life sisters. Then, I remembered one of the articles one of us posted about the narcissistic mom's kids and their relationships in adulthood. <em>There exist siblings, sisters and brothers, who come together in love ~ who never deserted themselves or one another in the first place. This is carried into their adulthoods, and family is created among them and they are all stronger because of it.</em></p><p></p><p>The difference for each of us is that we love in Neitszche sense of love, maybe; love came first because that is who we are. Whatever we come across, we get a fine charge out of it and enjoy it and come to love it. Like the rose in The Little Prince. We love our people because they are ours. It could be, that between our sisters and ourselves, we were the only ones genetically blessed with the capacity for love, with that little ping of joy feeling that motivates everything we do to this day.</p><p></p><p>So we would have been wonderful sisters to one another.</p><p></p><p>That is why we can be sisters in this way we are, now. There are three of us. That is a perfect set up for triangulation. But we are not doing that. Each of us has taken care, not only to include the others, but to feel incomplete without both the others. When you were quiet for a little time Copa, we both missed you. When Serenity was working that day, both you and I were in defensive mode about whether something had happened here on the site to cause her exclusion.</p><p></p><p>We all took steps to see that the connection would not be broken.</p><p></p><p>So, in this, we can see that we probably treated our sisters with the same care.</p><p></p><p>That is an important thing for us to know. When guilt comes to us about the way we are thinking about our own sisters, knowing that we did not triangulate between the three of us will instruct us on our basic natures regarding our real life sisters.</p><p></p><p>I think this is true.</p><p></p><p>So that's good, then. One less thing.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>I told D H what you said Copa, about being under the bed but not in it. He thought that was pretty funny.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 666771, member: 17461"] Yes. :O) Initially, I was going to respond that we and our sisters had been created by the fires we were forged in. That our situations relative to one another would be the same as our situations with our real life sisters. Then, I remembered one of the articles one of us posted about the narcissistic mom's kids and their relationships in adulthood. [I]There exist siblings, sisters and brothers, who come together in love ~ who never deserted themselves or one another in the first place. This is carried into their adulthoods, and family is created among them and they are all stronger because of it.[/I] The difference for each of us is that we love in Neitszche sense of love, maybe; love came first because that is who we are. Whatever we come across, we get a fine charge out of it and enjoy it and come to love it. Like the rose in The Little Prince. We love our people because they are ours. It could be, that between our sisters and ourselves, we were the only ones genetically blessed with the capacity for love, with that little ping of joy feeling that motivates everything we do to this day. So we would have been wonderful sisters to one another. That is why we can be sisters in this way we are, now. There are three of us. That is a perfect set up for triangulation. But we are not doing that. Each of us has taken care, not only to include the others, but to feel incomplete without both the others. When you were quiet for a little time Copa, we both missed you. When Serenity was working that day, both you and I were in defensive mode about whether something had happened here on the site to cause her exclusion. We all took steps to see that the connection would not be broken. So, in this, we can see that we probably treated our sisters with the same care. That is an important thing for us to know. When guilt comes to us about the way we are thinking about our own sisters, knowing that we did not triangulate between the three of us will instruct us on our basic natures regarding our real life sisters. I think this is true. So that's good, then. One less thing. :O) I told D H what you said Copa, about being under the bed but not in it. He thought that was pretty funny. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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