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<blockquote data-quote="Quicksand" data-source="post: 667129" data-attributes="member: 19405"><p>I remember my mother talking about how sometimes they would do "laying of hands" to patients in the hospital. Which always struck me as so out of character for her. And it was. That was probably a lie or she saw someone else doing it or maybe she could only do that sort of tender thing with a stranger.</p><p> My friend gave me the hospice book and that book really threw her for a loop. Emotional stuff. That's a bunch of garbage for the "overly sensitive". </p><p></p><p>As for Dr. GC being a professional... He's in it to keep pleasing his mommy. She has the pot of gold! The summer before my dads death, she casually mentioned that she was thinking of just taking him off all of his medicine if he was not going to go in a nursing home. My sister and I were alone with Dr. GC and his wife, and I told him what she said. He was on his iPad not acknowledging what I was saying and his wife kind of shoved him which her foot and said : Dr.GC, She's telling you something!! He said: I have my own $hit to worry about! </p><p>I said: ok then bye! And we left.</p><p></p><p>He doesn't care, he's unethical, lazy and selfish. </p><p></p><p>Yes, he's a doctor... I don't mean any disrespect but </p><p>He's a DO in Florida that treats old people in a general practice. He checks the box because he likes money. </p><p>My dad had a big rip on his arm because my mother, the nurse ripped a bandage from a blood draw off of his arm. His tissue paper skin. </p><p>I asked him to check on his arm and he never did stop by on his way home which he literally drives right by.</p><p></p><p>The dude is a dirtbag and he and my mother have an unspoken alliance.</p><p>My dad was no longer of use to my mother or Dr. GC. My dad at 78 years old, ceramic tiled dr's whole house on his hands and knees and he and he painted his practice. </p><p>His last Father's Day, I was down there and dr's wife invited us over. Dr GC was out fishing and he returned about 15 minutes before we left after being there 3 hours. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I do want to say, that day, after I called her a bit€h and she spent 4 hours in the bathroom (UAW and I repeatedly tried to get her to come out and she'd just say - leave me alone!) - I was sitting with my dad, lying to him saying - oh moms not feeling well- he kept asking where she was- and UAW just came in and said this is bull$hit I'm giving him the medicine! My mother rushed out of the bathroom and grabbed the syringe from him and gave it to him. the next day, the shtf with dr. GC</p><p></p><p></p><p>Our stories are so similar. It's wild! </p><p></p><p>I know I've over parented (now I know this) because I'd be dammed if I was going to be like her. In doing that though, I've messed up. Not completely, but I have. I can relate to COPA with her son..</p><p></p><p>Cedar, no offense taken. How else to describe her behavior? </p><p>Have you read- The people of the lie by m. Scot peck? It gets a little religious-y at the end but it really helped me get through the aftermath of that. It helped me understand that she is evil. </p><p></p><p>Same deal with my husband. Unmuzzled and I didn't see it either. </p><p></p><p>One of these days I'll be able to figure out how to "quote" in my writings like you guys do. I keep buggering it up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Quicksand, post: 667129, member: 19405"] I remember my mother talking about how sometimes they would do "laying of hands" to patients in the hospital. Which always struck me as so out of character for her. And it was. That was probably a lie or she saw someone else doing it or maybe she could only do that sort of tender thing with a stranger. My friend gave me the hospice book and that book really threw her for a loop. Emotional stuff. That's a bunch of garbage for the "overly sensitive". As for Dr. GC being a professional... He's in it to keep pleasing his mommy. She has the pot of gold! The summer before my dads death, she casually mentioned that she was thinking of just taking him off all of his medicine if he was not going to go in a nursing home. My sister and I were alone with Dr. GC and his wife, and I told him what she said. He was on his iPad not acknowledging what I was saying and his wife kind of shoved him which her foot and said : Dr.GC, She's telling you something!! He said: I have my own $hit to worry about! I said: ok then bye! And we left. He doesn't care, he's unethical, lazy and selfish. Yes, he's a doctor... I don't mean any disrespect but He's a DO in Florida that treats old people in a general practice. He checks the box because he likes money. My dad had a big rip on his arm because my mother, the nurse ripped a bandage from a blood draw off of his arm. His tissue paper skin. I asked him to check on his arm and he never did stop by on his way home which he literally drives right by. The dude is a dirtbag and he and my mother have an unspoken alliance. My dad was no longer of use to my mother or Dr. GC. My dad at 78 years old, ceramic tiled dr's whole house on his hands and knees and he and he painted his practice. His last Father's Day, I was down there and dr's wife invited us over. Dr GC was out fishing and he returned about 15 minutes before we left after being there 3 hours. I do want to say, that day, after I called her a bit€h and she spent 4 hours in the bathroom (UAW and I repeatedly tried to get her to come out and she'd just say - leave me alone!) - I was sitting with my dad, lying to him saying - oh moms not feeling well- he kept asking where she was- and UAW just came in and said this is bull$hit I'm giving him the medicine! My mother rushed out of the bathroom and grabbed the syringe from him and gave it to him. the next day, the shtf with dr. GC Our stories are so similar. It's wild! I know I've over parented (now I know this) because I'd be dammed if I was going to be like her. In doing that though, I've messed up. Not completely, but I have. I can relate to COPA with her son.. Cedar, no offense taken. How else to describe her behavior? Have you read- The people of the lie by m. Scot peck? It gets a little religious-y at the end but it really helped me get through the aftermath of that. It helped me understand that she is evil. Same deal with my husband. Unmuzzled and I didn't see it either. One of these days I'll be able to figure out how to "quote" in my writings like you guys do. I keep buggering it up. [/QUOTE]
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