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I Love a Narcissist. Now What?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 677678" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>When I read your post, Quickie, I actually figured out what the quotes were and what your answers were. Very good post, by the way <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Welcome to the Chronicles. Sounds like you have the typical markings of the devide/conquer/love/hate crazy FOO.</p><p></p><p>I have disconnected from mine emotionally. I don't even consider myself a Smith anymore (not their real name). I consider myself one of those who love me...my family of choice. I use my first husband's last name as both my maiden name and "mothers maiden name." My identity is tied up with my family of choice and, in a lesser way, my ex-husband, whose family was so kind to me and whom I still have a friendship with. But the only person in my FOO I feel in any way connected to is my father and he is very old. When he is gone, I will be totally free of any of that particular DNA. Trust me, I will miss him tons and want him HERE, but he is my only connection...the only person I know of who even speaks to or likes my remaining DNA. I plan on never speaking to the remaining DNA again for any reason. I don't want them to know about me and I don't want to know about them. And I don't know what th ey are up to these days and hope to keep it that way.</p><p></p><p>I am not one of them. They are not my people. My family of choice and few beloved friends are my people. DNA doesn't cut it for me.</p><p></p><p>Ok, ok. Rant over. Yes, quoting is not hard.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 677678, member: 1550"] When I read your post, Quickie, I actually figured out what the quotes were and what your answers were. Very good post, by the way :) Welcome to the Chronicles. Sounds like you have the typical markings of the devide/conquer/love/hate crazy FOO. I have disconnected from mine emotionally. I don't even consider myself a Smith anymore (not their real name). I consider myself one of those who love me...my family of choice. I use my first husband's last name as both my maiden name and "mothers maiden name." My identity is tied up with my family of choice and, in a lesser way, my ex-husband, whose family was so kind to me and whom I still have a friendship with. But the only person in my FOO I feel in any way connected to is my father and he is very old. When he is gone, I will be totally free of any of that particular DNA. Trust me, I will miss him tons and want him HERE, but he is my only connection...the only person I know of who even speaks to or likes my remaining DNA. I plan on never speaking to the remaining DNA again for any reason. I don't want them to know about me and I don't want to know about them. And I don't know what th ey are up to these days and hope to keep it that way. I am not one of them. They are not my people. My family of choice and few beloved friends are my people. DNA doesn't cut it for me. Ok, ok. Rant over. Yes, quoting is not hard. [/QUOTE]
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