I am daralex's boyfiend and looking for advice from anyone but mostly other men in my situation. I have found that i love the person that I am living with. And the problems with her difficult child does not give me a reason to discount the aspects of life I love. I am in search of advice/suggestions for dealing with my girlfiend's difficult child so that it suits my lifestyle as well. I am looking to find someone in a simiar situation and how they are dealing with it. I am finding the entire situation very frustrating, not something I 've delt with before and am looking for advice/suggestions as to how others are dealing with a new situation in their lives that includes dealing with a difficult child. I am very frustrated and l am adament in finding a solution to us all living in harmony. You can see by our signature what we are dealing with, but I find difficult child to be very rude and uncaring and am having difficulties in how to deal with difficult child effectively and being able to give proper input so that all will hear my opinions. What do you do do when you feel like your opinions are not being heard?