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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 76352" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Okay, I know I'm lucky -- she's not into drugs, she's not promiscuous by today's standards but ............ I understand that moving is stressful but .............</p><p></p><p>I am sick of the attitude, the blame game, the general meanness.</p><p></p><p>She yelled at me because I used "her" bathroom. This house has 2 bathrooms. The catbox is in my linen closet which means the door has to be open at all times. There is sand on the floor. The catbox is her responsibility. So, I used "her" bathroom. Tried to explain this is not the old house and she needs to come up with a very different attitude about this one or she will be using a bathroom at the local gas station.</p><p></p><p>Lately it really has been that if she doesn't get her way, she has an adult version of a temper tantrum. She gets snide, makes nasty comments, etc. Prime example was that she wanted to use my card reader to download something from her phone. Fine, I showed her where it was. "You have to show me how to use it," said in very nasty tone. I nicely told her. Then came the slamming of the card reader onto the dresser. A stomping out of my bedroom. A snarl as she came back and then an even bigger temper tantrum when she discovered her card did not fit this reader. Told her I was sorry it didn't work. "You should be. Why didn't you buy the right kind?" I did -- for my camera, not her phone.</p><p></p><p>I am truly sick of this. I am getting tired of being treated like dirt when things don't go her way. If she is getting her way, she is a truly awesome person. If not, they don't get much nastier or viler. I'll mention it, she'll glare at me. An hour or two later, I'll get an apology with a comment that she has no idea why she is behaving the way she is. Quite frankly, I don't care why, I just want it to STOP!</p><p></p><p>I can't make everything go her way. I refuse to make everything better at my expense. I'll happily supply her her basics for now but beyond that, it is her responsibility and she needs to find a way to resolve the problem, not me.</p><p></p><p>Yes, she has a problem in finding a job but that's her problem and responsibility (not my fault her purse is in California and she's not). She needs to find a way to get her friend to mail it or find a way to get the necessary documents to get new id. I refuse to help her and, if she keeps it up, I'll refuse to fund it as well.</p><p></p><p>Not sure anyone has any solution, but I needed to vent. Thanks for getting through this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 76352, member: 3626"] Okay, I know I'm lucky -- she's not into drugs, she's not promiscuous by today's standards but ............ I understand that moving is stressful but ............. I am sick of the attitude, the blame game, the general meanness. She yelled at me because I used "her" bathroom. This house has 2 bathrooms. The catbox is in my linen closet which means the door has to be open at all times. There is sand on the floor. The catbox is her responsibility. So, I used "her" bathroom. Tried to explain this is not the old house and she needs to come up with a very different attitude about this one or she will be using a bathroom at the local gas station. Lately it really has been that if she doesn't get her way, she has an adult version of a temper tantrum. She gets snide, makes nasty comments, etc. Prime example was that she wanted to use my card reader to download something from her phone. Fine, I showed her where it was. "You have to show me how to use it," said in very nasty tone. I nicely told her. Then came the slamming of the card reader onto the dresser. A stomping out of my bedroom. A snarl as she came back and then an even bigger temper tantrum when she discovered her card did not fit this reader. Told her I was sorry it didn't work. "You should be. Why didn't you buy the right kind?" I did -- for my camera, not her phone. I am truly sick of this. I am getting tired of being treated like dirt when things don't go her way. If she is getting her way, she is a truly awesome person. If not, they don't get much nastier or viler. I'll mention it, she'll glare at me. An hour or two later, I'll get an apology with a comment that she has no idea why she is behaving the way she is. Quite frankly, I don't care why, I just want it to STOP! I can't make everything go her way. I refuse to make everything better at my expense. I'll happily supply her her basics for now but beyond that, it is her responsibility and she needs to find a way to resolve the problem, not me. Yes, she has a problem in finding a job but that's her problem and responsibility (not my fault her purse is in California and she's not). She needs to find a way to get her friend to mail it or find a way to get the necessary documents to get new id. I refuse to help her and, if she keeps it up, I'll refuse to fund it as well. Not sure anyone has any solution, but I needed to vent. Thanks for getting through this. [/QUOTE]
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