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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 658114" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>SoTired, first I'm sending you a ((HUG)).</p><p></p><p>Your daughter is playing you. If her apology was sincere she would not have come back to you with such hatefulness. You did not respond to her in the way she expected so she is lashing out.</p><p>You do not deserve to be treated with such disdain.</p><p></p><p>It's time to stop walking on egg shells. It's time to stop allowing your daughter to hold your emotions hostage. She is trying to engage you into an argument.</p><p>You see if our Difficult Child can't get us to do what they want like giving them money or letting them move in with us then they go on the attack. They will come at us with such hatred, accusing us of being the worst parent on the planet. They want us to weaken in our resolve, they want us question ourselves, they want to break us and if they can break us they can control us.</p><p></p><p>You ARE strong enough to stand up against her. You are standing on firm ground not on egg shells.</p><p></p><p>If it were me, I would limit contact with her. Again, she will try to engage you into an argument, don't let her do that. I would simply reply to her saying "I'm sorry you feel that way" and when she comes back with something else, just keep repeating the same thing. The same simple response. She will grow tired of it.</p><p></p><p>You can do this. You are not alone. When those times come where you feel like you can't handle it remember all of us here, we are with you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 658114, member: 18516"] SoTired, first I'm sending you a ((HUG)). Your daughter is playing you. If her apology was sincere she would not have come back to you with such hatefulness. You did not respond to her in the way she expected so she is lashing out. You do not deserve to be treated with such disdain. It's time to stop walking on egg shells. It's time to stop allowing your daughter to hold your emotions hostage. She is trying to engage you into an argument. You see if our Difficult Child can't get us to do what they want like giving them money or letting them move in with us then they go on the attack. They will come at us with such hatred, accusing us of being the worst parent on the planet. They want us to weaken in our resolve, they want us question ourselves, they want to break us and if they can break us they can control us. You ARE strong enough to stand up against her. You are standing on firm ground not on egg shells. If it were me, I would limit contact with her. Again, she will try to engage you into an argument, don't let her do that. I would simply reply to her saying "I'm sorry you feel that way" and when she comes back with something else, just keep repeating the same thing. The same simple response. She will grow tired of it. You can do this. You are not alone. When those times come where you feel like you can't handle it remember all of us here, we are with you. [/QUOTE]
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