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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 678995" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Of course, she can do what she chooses, up to a point. </p><p></p><p>It may be that she (or you) need to decide between different levels and kinds of risks. </p><p></p><p>If the man is indeed violent and abusive, action must be taken by a responsible person. I would take her at her word: he is violent and abusive. Then, you need to take action if she will not. That is to call Child Protective Services. A mother cannot handle, should not handle a violently explosive situation. </p><p></p><p>I think the course of action for me would be clear: To make a report to Child Protective Services, anonymously, if you choose. If she, the mother, will not take protective action herself.</p><p></p><p>Of course all of this could be a manipulation. To damage and to control you. To make you feel bad and to respond, so she can have complete control over you. Perhaps she and the man. Using her child as bait. If this is the case, it would make me want to call CPS even more. Because she will continue using and misusing her child more and more, in dangerous ways. The baby will soon get older and know.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 678995, member: 18958"] Of course, she can do what she chooses, up to a point. It may be that she (or you) need to decide between different levels and kinds of risks. If the man is indeed violent and abusive, action must be taken by a responsible person. I would take her at her word: he is violent and abusive. Then, you need to take action if she will not. That is to call Child Protective Services. A mother cannot handle, should not handle a violently explosive situation. I think the course of action for me would be clear: To make a report to Child Protective Services, anonymously, if you choose. If she, the mother, will not take protective action herself. Of course all of this could be a manipulation. To damage and to control you. To make you feel bad and to respond, so she can have complete control over you. Perhaps she and the man. Using her child as bait. If this is the case, it would make me want to call CPS even more. Because she will continue using and misusing her child more and more, in dangerous ways. The baby will soon get older and know. COPA [/QUOTE]
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