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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 646216" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi S&S,</p><p>I'm sorry you had to find this site but am glad you did. There are years of experience on these pages from those of us who have weathered the storms.</p><p> </p><p>First you cannot make her take her medication. You can make it a condition of her living in your home but you would have to monitor her actually taking it to be sure. Perhaps there is a blood test that shows the levels.</p><p> </p><p></p><p>You have said something very important here: <em><span style="color: #0000ff">I know she is manipulating me</span></em></p><p> </p><p> It does not sound like depression is the main issue. I completely agree with MWM. She is very wise and gives very good advice.</p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p>You have no control over your daughter. I do hope you are not giving her money and I would stop paying for her car insurance. If she can go clubing then she is not so depressed that she cannot function and hold down a job.</p><p> </p><p>I know you love your daughter and you just want to kiss it and make it all better. We all get that, we have all been there. She is an adult now and needs to start acting like one. At present, she is taking advantage of you and the longer you allow that to continue the harder it will be on both of you.</p><p> </p><p>Again, there is so much advice on these pages, take time to read and find comfort in knowing that you are not alone, there are many of us who care.</p><p> </p><p>((HUGS)) to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 646216, member: 18516"] Hi S&S, I'm sorry you had to find this site but am glad you did. There are years of experience on these pages from those of us who have weathered the storms. First you cannot make her take her medication. You can make it a condition of her living in your home but you would have to monitor her actually taking it to be sure. Perhaps there is a blood test that shows the levels. You have said something very important here: [I][COLOR=#0000ff]I know she is manipulating me[/COLOR][/I] It does not sound like depression is the main issue. I completely agree with MWM. She is very wise and gives very good advice. You have no control over your daughter. I do hope you are not giving her money and I would stop paying for her car insurance. If she can go clubing then she is not so depressed that she cannot function and hold down a job. I know you love your daughter and you just want to kiss it and make it all better. We all get that, we have all been there. She is an adult now and needs to start acting like one. At present, she is taking advantage of you and the longer you allow that to continue the harder it will be on both of you. Again, there is so much advice on these pages, take time to read and find comfort in knowing that you are not alone, there are many of us who care. ((HUGS)) to you. [/QUOTE]
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