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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 711527" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>So many of us were sexually abused as children. Also, I would guess that the majority of children have sexual experiences with other children.</p><p></p><p>What makes it so wrong in son's case is he was victimized by older kids. So this is not a sexual experience. It is abuse. He needs to understand this. Kids often feel because it felt good, that they are responsible-and they carry guilt and shame that is not theirs to bear. This is not the case. Any pleasure he got was an involuntary physiological response. <em>I do not know how you can explain this to him, but I think you need to try.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>If you are in a big city or near one, there should be art therapy/expressive arts therapy clinics that will work with traumatized kids. He was traumatized. Here is a link: <a href="http://www.arttherapyblog.com/child-art-therapy/art-therapy-changes-lives-of-abused-children/#.WQaMpIWcEgA" target="_blank">Art Therapy Helps Abused Children | Art Therapy & Child Abuse</a></p><p></p><p>I know you must feel overwhelmed. Anybody would.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 711527, member: 18958"] So many of us were sexually abused as children. Also, I would guess that the majority of children have sexual experiences with other children. What makes it so wrong in son's case is he was victimized by older kids. So this is not a sexual experience. It is abuse. He needs to understand this. Kids often feel because it felt good, that they are responsible-and they carry guilt and shame that is not theirs to bear. This is not the case. Any pleasure he got was an involuntary physiological response. [I]I do not know how you can explain this to him, but I think you need to try. [/I] If you are in a big city or near one, there should be art therapy/expressive arts therapy clinics that will work with traumatized kids. He was traumatized. Here is a link: [URL='http://www.arttherapyblog.com/child-art-therapy/art-therapy-changes-lives-of-abused-children/#.WQaMpIWcEgA']Art Therapy Helps Abused Children | Art Therapy & Child Abuse[/URL] I know you must feel overwhelmed. Anybody would. [/QUOTE]
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