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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 694257" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hadenough, you have gotten good advice. People have laid it out. I would take heart. You are doing everything right in a situation that is totally wrong--that no mother should have to navigate. I am mad at your son. He should not have put his mother in that horrible situation to go get pills for him to quiet his suffering.No mother should have had to endure that. </p><p></p><p>And to most likely deceive you and make you wait--while it seems like he got that one last high--that was wrong too. To leave you there waiting with your heart in your mouth. All is not lost. He can find his way back. What he will decide, will not be known until he makes his recovery a reality over months and then years. </p><p></p><p>He deceived you and most of all he deceived himself by living a double life. How I hate for you that he was procuring for that professional person. He will be at a choice point, but you are not. You seem very, very clear about your role and what you need.</p><p></p><p>Now is the time to build yourself up by doing every single thing you can think of to be healthy, safe, nourished and nurtured-by you. You have gone through an experience that was as if an assault on your essence. I am glad you came back to us and I hope you stay. We really care. </p><p></p><p>Now it is time for your story to take precedence. Your son now has responsibility for his own. Take care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 694257, member: 18958"] Hadenough, you have gotten good advice. People have laid it out. I would take heart. You are doing everything right in a situation that is totally wrong--that no mother should have to navigate. I am mad at your son. He should not have put his mother in that horrible situation to go get pills for him to quiet his suffering.No mother should have had to endure that. And to most likely deceive you and make you wait--while it seems like he got that one last high--that was wrong too. To leave you there waiting with your heart in your mouth. All is not lost. He can find his way back. What he will decide, will not be known until he makes his recovery a reality over months and then years. He deceived you and most of all he deceived himself by living a double life. How I hate for you that he was procuring for that professional person. He will be at a choice point, but you are not. You seem very, very clear about your role and what you need. Now is the time to build yourself up by doing every single thing you can think of to be healthy, safe, nourished and nurtured-by you. You have gone through an experience that was as if an assault on your essence. I am glad you came back to us and I hope you stay. We really care. Now it is time for your story to take precedence. Your son now has responsibility for his own. Take care. [/QUOTE]
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