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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 759768" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Welcome</p><p></p><p>I join the others in offering my condolences for your loss of your husband. I cannot even fathom losing my husband AND dealing with our son when he was off the rails. Please give yourself much self-compassion because YOU have certainly earned it!!</p><p></p><p>I agree with the others. Your son should not live with you under any circumstances but you can only do what your heart can bear. It is a long and painful process to get where WE need to be.</p><p></p><p>We have our son with us now after a 13 month Christian program. He lost 5 years of his life drugging. He is doing well now but I honestly cannot wait until he finishes college and can be on his own. I am glad we had time to reconnect because our relationship, once as thick as thieves, was shot to hell.</p><p></p><p>He gave nothing but lip service for so many years. Like Copa said, our lists don't mean shi* to them.</p><p></p><p>I don't know if you have faith in God but if you do, start praying. Pray for your son and yourself. Prayer and my faith in God is what helped me get through. I knew that he is God's son too and not just my son and I also knew that God's will would prevail. Even if that meant that my son's life would end due to his poor choices and dangerous lifestyle. I had to make peace with that. </p><p></p><p>Stay with us because you have gotten great advice!! This site gave me the strength I needed to do what we did. I do not think we would have had a good outcome if we did not change how WE parented.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/staystrong.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":staystrong:" title="staystrong :staystrong:" data-shortname=":staystrong:" /> <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/hamwheelsmilf.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hamwheelsmilf:" title="hamwheelsmilf :hamwheelsmilf:" data-shortname=":hamwheelsmilf:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 759768, member: 15032"] Welcome I join the others in offering my condolences for your loss of your husband. I cannot even fathom losing my husband AND dealing with our son when he was off the rails. Please give yourself much self-compassion because YOU have certainly earned it!! I agree with the others. Your son should not live with you under any circumstances but you can only do what your heart can bear. It is a long and painful process to get where WE need to be. We have our son with us now after a 13 month Christian program. He lost 5 years of his life drugging. He is doing well now but I honestly cannot wait until he finishes college and can be on his own. I am glad we had time to reconnect because our relationship, once as thick as thieves, was shot to hell. He gave nothing but lip service for so many years. Like Copa said, our lists don't mean shi* to them. I don't know if you have faith in God but if you do, start praying. Pray for your son and yourself. Prayer and my faith in God is what helped me get through. I knew that he is God's son too and not just my son and I also knew that God's will would prevail. Even if that meant that my son's life would end due to his poor choices and dangerous lifestyle. I had to make peace with that. Stay with us because you have gotten great advice!! This site gave me the strength I needed to do what we did. I do not think we would have had a good outcome if we did not change how WE parented. :staystrong: :hamwheelsmilf: [/QUOTE]
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