For my own sanity, I need to stop worrying so much and I need to stop being so hard on myself... I have made it my "New Year's Resolution". So here I am, Monday, January 3rd - and I am upset after finding out difficult child has been sending messages to guys that essentially promise them sex, but make it clear that her mean ol' parents are standing in the way, and if he would only DO something...then they'll be together. These messages freak me out on many levels. But I am trying to "let it go", detach, "stop worrying so much" as per my Resolution. So... How do I do that? Ideas? Suggestions?