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I need some strength from my CD family
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 637752" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>Oh Kathy... I am so sorry you are going through this again. That darned roller coaster never stops does it! Our difficult children are so much alike I am really thankful they do not know each other. I will write an update in another thread.</p><p></p><p>I think you are absolutely right to cut off all financial support. You have to right now I think. You cant provide any financial support while she is using and doing all the wrong things.... that fear that if you rescue her again you may be doing this for the rest of your life is very real.</p><p></p><p>I think in terms of cutting off all contact, you have to do what is right for you, what helps you have peace of mind, what takes care of you. I am not sure that I could cut contact with my son</p><p>completely but I might if he started harrassing me constantly for support. So basically what is right here is what serves you the best. You (and the rest of us) really need to take care of yourself right now because in the end we need to survive and recover and live our lives.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 637752, member: 15801"] Oh Kathy... I am so sorry you are going through this again. That darned roller coaster never stops does it! Our difficult children are so much alike I am really thankful they do not know each other. I will write an update in another thread. I think you are absolutely right to cut off all financial support. You have to right now I think. You cant provide any financial support while she is using and doing all the wrong things.... that fear that if you rescue her again you may be doing this for the rest of your life is very real. I think in terms of cutting off all contact, you have to do what is right for you, what helps you have peace of mind, what takes care of you. I am not sure that I could cut contact with my son completely but I might if he started harrassing me constantly for support. So basically what is right here is what serves you the best. You (and the rest of us) really need to take care of yourself right now because in the end we need to survive and recover and live our lives. TL [/QUOTE]
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