Steely
Active Member
I hate to be whiney, and I always feel like such a complainer when I post. I just really need your support, anyones support, and you guys are the only ones I can be real with. So I thank you in advance for listening.
I feel myself hurling right into a huge bought of depression. I have fought it off, amazingly, since I moved here in April. I have been sad, but not morose, not suicidal, not thinking about driving off a cliff every time I see one.
I have spent at least 1/16th of my life feeling these feelings. I have been to many counselors, and have been on many medications. Nothing seems to help except redirecting my energy into an outlet. That is hard to do, however, when you are depressed. My new job seemed to offer that outlet until M, my boss/best friend left 2 weeks ago.
My contact with Matt has been almost completely cut off by the program he is in - and I feel like I have lost my son. I am vacillating between panic and acceptance. I am not sure what my truth is right now, let alone what is right for him. The program has been horrible to me, accusing me of being the root of the problem - which is the consummate scarlet letter I have worn Matt's entire life. You would think a mental health facility would know better - but no - somehow the blame is still redirected towards a vulnerable target. Me, the single mom. I would love to know what I have done - yet their answer is that Matt is too focused on his phone calls with me, and he needs to be more focused on his program. Grand. I can see that. But what about the fact they have cut off the only tie he has to a semblance of family. I am it. And they want to take that away. Truthfully I cannot even write anymore about that because I will fall apart. I am just keeping it all inside at this point until I figure out what needs to be done. I have an outside source, an ed consultant, that I have re-hired to help me. I guess I just need to be patient.
My guy friends are just distractions, they don't really understand the depth of this pain. How could they. One is super young, and both do not have kids. They are pretty useless when it push comes to shove. I do have one other girl friend here, and we are trying to connect, but you know...............
My job is in limbo since M left. I have no direction, no idea what to do - except the mandates corporate gives me that the local corporate does not support. I am doing my job and M's job, until god knows when..........
Ummm. Perspective. I love my dogs, my house, and my mountains.
I hope you understand these feelings, but if not, could, you please not tell me to see a counselor or a Dr. I already know what "I need to do". Tonight I just need to feel like I have a friend.
I love you guys.
Steely
I feel myself hurling right into a huge bought of depression. I have fought it off, amazingly, since I moved here in April. I have been sad, but not morose, not suicidal, not thinking about driving off a cliff every time I see one.
I have spent at least 1/16th of my life feeling these feelings. I have been to many counselors, and have been on many medications. Nothing seems to help except redirecting my energy into an outlet. That is hard to do, however, when you are depressed. My new job seemed to offer that outlet until M, my boss/best friend left 2 weeks ago.
My contact with Matt has been almost completely cut off by the program he is in - and I feel like I have lost my son. I am vacillating between panic and acceptance. I am not sure what my truth is right now, let alone what is right for him. The program has been horrible to me, accusing me of being the root of the problem - which is the consummate scarlet letter I have worn Matt's entire life. You would think a mental health facility would know better - but no - somehow the blame is still redirected towards a vulnerable target. Me, the single mom. I would love to know what I have done - yet their answer is that Matt is too focused on his phone calls with me, and he needs to be more focused on his program. Grand. I can see that. But what about the fact they have cut off the only tie he has to a semblance of family. I am it. And they want to take that away. Truthfully I cannot even write anymore about that because I will fall apart. I am just keeping it all inside at this point until I figure out what needs to be done. I have an outside source, an ed consultant, that I have re-hired to help me. I guess I just need to be patient.
My guy friends are just distractions, they don't really understand the depth of this pain. How could they. One is super young, and both do not have kids. They are pretty useless when it push comes to shove. I do have one other girl friend here, and we are trying to connect, but you know...............
My job is in limbo since M left. I have no direction, no idea what to do - except the mandates corporate gives me that the local corporate does not support. I am doing my job and M's job, until god knows when..........
Ummm. Perspective. I love my dogs, my house, and my mountains.
I hope you understand these feelings, but if not, could, you please not tell me to see a counselor or a Dr. I already know what "I need to do". Tonight I just need to feel like I have a friend.
I love you guys.
Steely