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I Never Imagined I’d Be Here- Need Advice
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 751679" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>( just loved this post, JP. It's among my top 5 in a lifetime posts. </p><p></p><p>This analysis of daughter's behavior is so prescient. I think you've hit the nail on the head. Putting this into words helps me better understand why my son hurts me. Tells me how his sadness will never get better. How he's always depressed. He wants to share it with me.<em> Because I won't help him make it go away.</em>I am not sure if the wish is payback. It could be. I see it more as sharing. A boundary issue. And the childlike belief that mothers are there to reassure and to make the pain go away. </p><p>I think this is so.</p><p>I love this!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 751679, member: 18958"] ( just loved this post, JP. It's among my top 5 in a lifetime posts. This analysis of daughter's behavior is so prescient. I think you've hit the nail on the head. Putting this into words helps me better understand why my son hurts me. Tells me how his sadness will never get better. How he's always depressed. He wants to share it with me.[I] Because I won't help him make it go away.[/I]I am not sure if the wish is payback. It could be. I see it more as sharing. A boundary issue. And the childlike belief that mothers are there to reassure and to make the pain go away. I think this is so. I love this!!! [/QUOTE]
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