And then I ordered this: http://acaciacatalog.com/product.asp_Q_pn_E_50837 It's designed by a doctor and back specialist. I ordered it Tuesday and it came Thursday (I did not do express shipping or anything). I put it on my bed and sat down and I didn't hurt anywhere - not my hips, not my lower back, not my upper back, not my shoulders, nothing. It is heaven. I may never leave my bed again.