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I raised him right, right? Self blame and the pursuit of happiness.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 650389" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Where there is theft, there is a reason for theft and it is usually drugs. There are tons of red flags for drugs that you found, but that is his problem now...and his brothers.</p><p></p><p>It no longer matters as you have found a solution. He has moved out and you and your husband can go back to living a normal life. I do know what it is like to be a police officer in your own house. I relate to it. I'm so glad those days are behind us.</p><p></p><p>We worked hard all our lives and gave our best to our kids. We deserve our home to be our sanctuary, even if it is small...it is where we hang our hats and should be able to breathe. The others living with us deserve a peaceful place to live too.</p><p></p><p>I believe you did the right thing. It is his own story to write now. Those long marathan bathroom trips and wrappers are clues to drug use, but you can't do anything about it even if you do find a smoking gun (and they are clever at hiding it). Only he can decide to stop using drugs. If this were me, he would not be allowed back from here on out. Something bad is going on with him and it is HIS choice not yours and you don't need it nor do your loved ones. He has to figure it out himself. My opinion, of course.</p><p></p><p>You are very strong. I am glad you here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 650389, member: 1550"] Where there is theft, there is a reason for theft and it is usually drugs. There are tons of red flags for drugs that you found, but that is his problem now...and his brothers. It no longer matters as you have found a solution. He has moved out and you and your husband can go back to living a normal life. I do know what it is like to be a police officer in your own house. I relate to it. I'm so glad those days are behind us. We worked hard all our lives and gave our best to our kids. We deserve our home to be our sanctuary, even if it is small...it is where we hang our hats and should be able to breathe. The others living with us deserve a peaceful place to live too. I believe you did the right thing. It is his own story to write now. Those long marathan bathroom trips and wrappers are clues to drug use, but you can't do anything about it even if you do find a smoking gun (and they are clever at hiding it). Only he can decide to stop using drugs. If this were me, he would not be allowed back from here on out. Something bad is going on with him and it is HIS choice not yours and you don't need it nor do your loved ones. He has to figure it out himself. My opinion, of course. You are very strong. I am glad you here. [/QUOTE]
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