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I raised him right, right? Self blame and the pursuit of happiness.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 650428" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Actually, the way I'd handle being blamed for E by others in the family is to totally blow it off when they bring it up.</p><p></p><p>If it got too bad, I'd have to consider going low contact with all of them. This is them all ganging up on you and making at fault, ignorantly so, for the way their brother acts. You need counseling to put it into perspective and to weigh your choices here. There are many. I do not think I'd put up with abuse from my kids anymore. I already been there/done that. Yet I love all my kids and am lucky they don't blame me for what each other has done. </p><p></p><p>This reeks of your family naming you as the black sheep, responsible for all that is wrong, and I would be hard put not to walk away from all of them if they were constantly at me and would not listen. And, yes, since one of my kids did walk away from me and tell me vile things about myself that are not true, I know how much it hurts. </p><p></p><p>You have a lot on your plate. Time to take care of YOU and start to clear your plate off, putting yourself first. Hugggs!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 650428, member: 1550"] Actually, the way I'd handle being blamed for E by others in the family is to totally blow it off when they bring it up. If it got too bad, I'd have to consider going low contact with all of them. This is them all ganging up on you and making at fault, ignorantly so, for the way their brother acts. You need counseling to put it into perspective and to weigh your choices here. There are many. I do not think I'd put up with abuse from my kids anymore. I already been there/done that. Yet I love all my kids and am lucky they don't blame me for what each other has done. This reeks of your family naming you as the black sheep, responsible for all that is wrong, and I would be hard put not to walk away from all of them if they were constantly at me and would not listen. And, yes, since one of my kids did walk away from me and tell me vile things about myself that are not true, I know how much it hurts. You have a lot on your plate. Time to take care of YOU and start to clear your plate off, putting yourself first. Hugggs!!! [/QUOTE]
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