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I REFUSE to take him with me anymore!! LONG
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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 68298" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>ilovemyson, this is one of the hard parts - but very helpful for you and difficult child. </p><p></p><p>Keep an eye out for this behavior and see if it happens more or gets worse when he is around a lot of people. If it does, you have a better chance of helping him out with it. Hard to change someone who wants to be the center of attention. You can help someone that is anxious, though. Or at least try. You can speak to him before hand to explain who or how many people will be there. You can ask him if there is a way he can let you know when he is feeling restless and needs to move around. The more he knows going in, the better off you will both be. If it is him getting anxious - just think how much differently you react - with concern instead of annoyance (believe me - I have been there - LOL!). With ideas on hand to help him not be so anxious. It helps you both. </p><p></p><p>It might help to keep a journal of difficult children behavior - that is how to find patterns. Some people even track foods and bed times to see how much changes in those impact behavior.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 68298, member: 391"] ilovemyson, this is one of the hard parts - but very helpful for you and difficult child. Keep an eye out for this behavior and see if it happens more or gets worse when he is around a lot of people. If it does, you have a better chance of helping him out with it. Hard to change someone who wants to be the center of attention. You can help someone that is anxious, though. Or at least try. You can speak to him before hand to explain who or how many people will be there. You can ask him if there is a way he can let you know when he is feeling restless and needs to move around. The more he knows going in, the better off you will both be. If it is him getting anxious - just think how much differently you react - with concern instead of annoyance (believe me - I have been there - LOL!). With ideas on hand to help him not be so anxious. It helps you both. It might help to keep a journal of difficult children behavior - that is how to find patterns. Some people even track foods and bed times to see how much changes in those impact behavior. [/QUOTE]
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