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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 659357" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>This journey is a long long walk in the dark, stumbling along, toward more and more light. This trip was necessary for you to see more light. </p><p></p><p>You are seeing more and more clearly. This is actually all good.</p><p></p><p>Follow your instincts right now. You need space and distance and time. Make decisions that will give you those things.</p><p></p><p>They are going to do what it they do. You can be separate from all of that and still love them.</p><p></p><p>Go away from them. Set those physical boundaries so you can find what you need to live a Happy life. Every person's life is their very own, to do with what they will. </p><p></p><p>I am learning this truth more and more every day. </p><p></p><p>We want to be around healthy people who give and take in mutually respectful relationships. That is hard to accomplish even with our PCs...there is so much history between us. And we have to create new relationships with them as adults and it is new territory for us.</p><p></p><p>Friends are so much easier!! </p><p></p><p>You have learned so much on this trip BG. Go and get another copy of codependent no more when you can. Read it in earnest. You will value Melody BeAtties very direct and clear language right now. Keep sharing here. You are in a new and very good place. Keep walking forward. There is peace and happiness ahead for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 659357, member: 17542"] This journey is a long long walk in the dark, stumbling along, toward more and more light. This trip was necessary for you to see more light. You are seeing more and more clearly. This is actually all good. Follow your instincts right now. You need space and distance and time. Make decisions that will give you those things. They are going to do what it they do. You can be separate from all of that and still love them. Go away from them. Set those physical boundaries so you can find what you need to live a Happy life. Every person's life is their very own, to do with what they will. I am learning this truth more and more every day. We want to be around healthy people who give and take in mutually respectful relationships. That is hard to accomplish even with our PCs...there is so much history between us. And we have to create new relationships with them as adults and it is new territory for us. Friends are so much easier!! You have learned so much on this trip BG. Go and get another copy of codependent no more when you can. Read it in earnest. You will value Melody BeAtties very direct and clear language right now. Keep sharing here. You are in a new and very good place. Keep walking forward. There is peace and happiness ahead for you. [/QUOTE]
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