Today was first day of school. Also the day for cgfg to come to our house. I *almost* asked for her to not come today, with the "big meeting" tomorrow, but decided not to. Oh how I wish I had. easy child 1, his girlfriend, and I were cutting corn to freeze. She meandered out the door, plopped in the swing, and pulled her ipod out of her pocket. She snuck it to school on the VERY FIRST DAY. I said nothing. When I went inside, I told husband she had it. He said "so?" I said "so, its not supposed to go to school" and he said "she just went into her room and got it". Seriously???? HOW DO YOU THINK IT GOT INTO HER ROOM, husband???? Teleport? That was it. I walked back out. Wee, meanwhile, had rrun out there and stuck his little nose into it and told her she was in trouble. In response, she kicked him. So I got involved. I took Wee into the house and plopped him down for sticking his nose in her business, and I took the Ipod and told her dad would deal with it from there. She said "but grandma said if I bought it, I could do whatever I want with it." I said "yeah? So mom agrees with this and dis ok with that going to school?" Well...no. Took the Ipod in, and went back to do corn. Cgfg sat in the swing, sulking. Few minutes later, husband came out. Talked to us a few minutes, then walked towards the house. Cgfg jumped up and ran to him and they headed to the barn. I didn't pay much attention. I needed to go get more freezer bags, so I called husband to tell him, since I didn't know where he went. Know where he was? CGFG WANTED TO RIDE HER HORSE, SO HE WAS HELPING HER CATCH AND SADDLE IT!!!!!?!?!! OMG. I lost it. I told him no *&^&^(*& way, and that was EXACTLY why I am so angry at him...I am super-witch step mom, and you haven't said a THING about the ipod, have you??? (no) And she's getting what from the deal? One on one daddy time in disneyland? Oh, yeah. Great job, husband. She listens SOOOOOOOO well. I left. When I got back home, she slammed the door in Wee's face and told him to STAY OUT! Then Weee felt bad and spent ann hour crying because she hated him. OMG. NOt tonight people. Not tonight. PLease.