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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 678070" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Don't call them. This is between your ADULT daughter and them. It has nothing to do with you. You do not need to engage them or subject yourself to judgments when they don't understand.DO NOT RESPOND AT ALL TO THESE CLUELESS STRANGERS!</p><p></p><p>Your daughter can not drag you into anything unless you let her.</p><p></p><p>If this were me, I would not get tangled up in her mess, and it IS her mess. You can't control what she says about you or w what a few people who don't know how kind you are and how hard you have tried think about you, but does it really matter what they think?</p><p></p><p>The less you know about your daughter, the better it is for you. And you, your other loved ones who are able to show their love and appreciation of you, your friends and other positive people in your life deserve to have a healthy, stress-free you. YOU matter. YOU MATTER TOO! YOU MATTER AS MUCH AS YOUR DAUGHTER DOES!</p><p></p><p>Don't get pulled down with your daughter. You do not have to put yourself in the middle of t his and my strong suggestion is to ignore it. Don't answer texts or phone calls regarding this matter, no matter who in this drama is the one calling you. It is up to you whether or not you want to engage with somebody. Nobody can force it on you.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and be very, very good to somebody you've been neglecting...yourself!!!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 678070, member: 1550"] Don't call them. This is between your ADULT daughter and them. It has nothing to do with you. You do not need to engage them or subject yourself to judgments when they don't understand.DO NOT RESPOND AT ALL TO THESE CLUELESS STRANGERS! Your daughter can not drag you into anything unless you let her. If this were me, I would not get tangled up in her mess, and it IS her mess. You can't control what she says about you or w what a few people who don't know how kind you are and how hard you have tried think about you, but does it really matter what they think? The less you know about your daughter, the better it is for you. And you, your other loved ones who are able to show their love and appreciation of you, your friends and other positive people in your life deserve to have a healthy, stress-free you. YOU matter. YOU MATTER TOO! YOU MATTER AS MUCH AS YOUR DAUGHTER DOES! Don't get pulled down with your daughter. You do not have to put yourself in the middle of t his and my strong suggestion is to ignore it. Don't answer texts or phone calls regarding this matter, no matter who in this drama is the one calling you. It is up to you whether or not you want to engage with somebody. Nobody can force it on you. Hugs and be very, very good to somebody you've been neglecting...yourself!!!! :) [/QUOTE]
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