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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 24590" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I agree he is reaching out, but if he's only allowed one visitor a month and he's choosing his girlfriend, reaching out seems to be in theory, only. </p><p></p><p>I wonder what would happen if he went ahead and took that one visit a month with his girlfriend, and when he said "Please come see me" you had to tell him, "I'm sorry, I can't, because girlfriend used up all your visiting time." Then you would really know whether he was reaching out, or just making the mewling kitten noises that have always gotten your attention in the past. After all, life is all about the choices we make.</p><p></p><p>I'm thinking that not only do you need to take this time to take care of yourself and easy child, but he also needs to take this time to learn how to stand on his own feet as much as he can in his limited circumstances - make his own choices about budgeting time and people. When he gets out, it is going to be very difficult for him. More difficult than it was before, because he will have an adult record. Will he be strong enough to stand on his own, or will he fall back on you?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 24590, member: 99"] I agree he is reaching out, but if he's only allowed one visitor a month and he's choosing his girlfriend, reaching out seems to be in theory, only. I wonder what would happen if he went ahead and took that one visit a month with his girlfriend, and when he said "Please come see me" you had to tell him, "I'm sorry, I can't, because girlfriend used up all your visiting time." Then you would really know whether he was reaching out, or just making the mewling kitten noises that have always gotten your attention in the past. After all, life is all about the choices we make. I'm thinking that not only do you need to take this time to take care of yourself and easy child, but he also needs to take this time to learn how to stand on his own feet as much as he can in his limited circumstances - make his own choices about budgeting time and people. When he gets out, it is going to be very difficult for him. More difficult than it was before, because he will have an adult record. Will he be strong enough to stand on his own, or will he fall back on you? [/QUOTE]
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