I think he's going down...

[toughlovin]

I think what we did was split the assets and I think we created a trust for both kid... But we may have made the age earlier for my daughter than my son because we trust her judgement more.

 

[lovemyson1]

touglovin, we thought about that but my husband said he had a friend growing up that used his trust fund to by cocaine and blew through it all fast. I suppose no matter what we just don't have control. And I agree, 59 1/2 is too long. My husband is tough. Maybe I'll work on him some more, haha!

 

[BusynMember]

Thank you.

I accept what she did. It happened. I dont judge it anymore. I consider that my idea of forgiveness but my beliefs are that you cant forgive anyone that has no remorse. I know its supposed to be for me, but I feel better just accepting it without emotion. She was what she was...she was hateful to me. Nothing was ever good...she'd make it bad...ugh.

I do not recommend anyone disinherit a child unless the person wants to devestate a grown child from the grave. Could he forever. Thank you for caring.

 

[lovemyson1]

For the record Somewhere, I can't believe anyone would be hateful to you. You have been such a love, and so helpful and caring throughout my course with my son. I am forever grateful to you. I'm truly sorry your mom didn't see what I and many on this site see. I hope you know you are worthy, and a true jewel.

 

[BusynMember]

Thanks. I aporeciate your kind words.