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I think my husband is wavering in his resolve to remove the difficult one from our house
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 648651" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>((HUGS)) to you...</p><p>That's a tough spot to be in.</p><p>Perhaps you can tell her something along these lines:</p><p>"since you have not been staying here on a regular basis we are taking that to mean you no longer want to live here, in which case your belonging will be boxed up. Let us know when you will stopping by to collect them"</p><p>If you tell her this I'm sure she will find time away from her friends to talk, or better yet she'll say fine and let you know when she can come collect her things.</p><p>If she says "you can't do that" I would reply along the lines of "actually, yes we can. it is clear by your actions that you don't want to live here or you would be here every night. Your coming and going whenever and wherever you like is too disruptive to this household"</p><p> </p><p>I agree with you that if your husband allows her back that you will need to stay somewhere else. Don't say it if you don't mean it. Have an action plan ready. It doesn't have to be forever.</p><p> </p><p>She obviously has places to stay, I doubt she's sleeping on the streets.</p><p> </p><p>Hang in there!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 648651, member: 18516"] ((HUGS)) to you... That's a tough spot to be in. Perhaps you can tell her something along these lines: "since you have not been staying here on a regular basis we are taking that to mean you no longer want to live here, in which case your belonging will be boxed up. Let us know when you will stopping by to collect them" If you tell her this I'm sure she will find time away from her friends to talk, or better yet she'll say fine and let you know when she can come collect her things. If she says "you can't do that" I would reply along the lines of "actually, yes we can. it is clear by your actions that you don't want to live here or you would be here every night. Your coming and going whenever and wherever you like is too disruptive to this household" I agree with you that if your husband allows her back that you will need to stay somewhere else. Don't say it if you don't mean it. Have an action plan ready. It doesn't have to be forever. She obviously has places to stay, I doubt she's sleeping on the streets. Hang in there!! [/QUOTE]
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