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I was feeling hopeless...now I am just furious...
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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 706993" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>When she was 14 and had consensual sex with a 16 year old (boyfriend from hell) I went to the police, they sent me to the sexual assault office, and there I was told that daughter had to come in and sign a form naming the perpetrator. Then the police would issue a no contact order against the guy, but there was nothing that would prevent her from contacting him!</p><p></p><p>First of all she wouldn't sign anything...she was in LOVE... Second, even if she did, she could change her mind and there would be no repercussion.</p><p></p><p>In our state, the age of consent is 16. I don't think there is anything that would legally keep her from the guys or vice versa. When she was 15 and he was 18 the police wouldn't do anything. The only thing that worked, at least for a while, was his probation officer made it a condition of his probation to not have contact with her, as he was helping her skip school to be with him. They said I couldn't do anything about the sex, but if he gave her drugs, or encouraged her to sneak out at night, then it was for contributing to the delinquency of a minor.</p><p></p><p>Believe me, and have tried. Now, she realizes that it was wrong to be sexually active at 14. And that he manipulated her in to doing it... He used her vulnerability against her and tried (and did) turn her against us.</p><p></p><p>Ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 706993, member: 12511"] When she was 14 and had consensual sex with a 16 year old (boyfriend from hell) I went to the police, they sent me to the sexual assault office, and there I was told that daughter had to come in and sign a form naming the perpetrator. Then the police would issue a no contact order against the guy, but there was nothing that would prevent her from contacting him! First of all she wouldn't sign anything...she was in LOVE... Second, even if she did, she could change her mind and there would be no repercussion. In our state, the age of consent is 16. I don't think there is anything that would legally keep her from the guys or vice versa. When she was 15 and he was 18 the police wouldn't do anything. The only thing that worked, at least for a while, was his probation officer made it a condition of his probation to not have contact with her, as he was helping her skip school to be with him. They said I couldn't do anything about the sex, but if he gave her drugs, or encouraged her to sneak out at night, then it was for contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Believe me, and have tried. Now, she realizes that it was wrong to be sexually active at 14. And that he manipulated her in to doing it... He used her vulnerability against her and tried (and did) turn her against us. Ksm [/QUOTE]
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