The biggest and hardest decisions are the ones that do the most though. You're strong, intelligent, respectful of yourself.....you're the Abster! You can do this!
And yep, Carole said it best....you've got a friend....or thirty. And conveniently all in one place!
Abbey I'm sorry you are facing this situation. I know things have been difficult in your relationship for a while now. I have a lot of confidence in your ability to bounce back.